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Friday, July 1, 2011

Louie ~ More info.

Pam ~ I was "blessed" to learn more of Louie's story.  Enjoy!!!

I will never forget that day when I rescued Louie...the steamy, hot swamp, the muggy smell of swamp water, and the occasional sight of "gator bumps" gliding silently ahead of me.  Suddenly, a small green object came into sight.  As I drew closer, I recognized it as a baby alligator.  But, something was not right.  Instead of crawling around on land or swimming in the swamp, it was lying on its back with its legs in the air.  Suddenly, I saw a HUGE gator heading for the baby alligator.  If I did nothing, the baby gator's days (rather, minutes) would be numbered.  I paddled as hard as I could toward the baby gator.  The big alligator was approaching at full speed!  Would I get there in time?  Just as the HUGE alligator lunged for the baby gator, I swept the baby gator up and into the canoe.  The splash of the HUGE alligator as it landed where the baby gator had been just seconds before almost filled my canoe.  I paddled furiously to put as much distance between me and the angry alligator as I could.  I break out in a cold sweat just thinking about what could have been a tragedy.  I am so happy that Louie has a home and is safe at last!
~from Bob Schultz


Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Winnie the Pooh & a Weekend Visitor


 "A little Consideration, a little Thought for Others, makes all the difference."
~ Pooh's Little Instruction Book

"I don't see much sense in that," said Rabbit.  "No," said Pooh humbly, "there isn't.  But there was going to be when I began it.  It's just that something happened to it along the way."
~ Winnie the Pooh

"If you live to be 100, I hope I live to be 100 minus 1 day, so I never have to live without you."
~ Winnie the Pooh


I bought this fabric sometime during our first year of marriage (6-7 yrs ago) and it has been laying in our closet ever since.  I wanted to make a blanket, but never took the time to get it out and figure out how to do it.  (I sometimes lack confidence in doing new things.)

My friend, Susanna, came to visit over this past weekend.  I had warned her ahead of time that I haven't been doing much lately, so we would probably just be "hanging out" and watching movies :-).  So she brought along fabric to cut and tie two blankets for her little cousins.  I immediately jumped on the opportunity and asked her to "help" me make my blanket :-).  I can't get down on the floor yet, so she crawled around and did the cutting of the material, and then I did the tying.  I LOVE my new blanket.  What do YOU think??????

Me & Susanna ~ July 2006 (It's an old picture, but it's the best one I have.)

Louie

Pam ~ I am delighted to introduce you to my new friend Louie.


Dear Pam & Nate,
Let me introduce myself - my name is Louie.  Bob Schultz rescued me from the swamps of Louisiana.  Bob & Liz filled my belly and prepared me to be handed over to you.  They said I would be in a good home where I could be of some use.  So here I am.
~Louie~


 (Bob & Liz were my "adoptive" parents when I was in college and they will always be very special "family" to Nathan and I.  It is such a blessing to know that they are praying for us and our children.  This is probably our first "gift" to our children!!!!)

Friday, June 24, 2011

Six Months DTE

As of today, we have been on our agency's waiting list for 1/2 of a year.  As our six month DTE-aversary arrives, we are now number
in the "Siblings 4 years old & younger" category of the unofficial wait list.

These six months have gone by quickly at times, but very slowly at other times.  We are praying for our kids (God know who they are and is taking care of them for us) and are praying that God will allow us to see their precious faces SOON!!!!

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Surgery/Recovery ~ Post #1

Pam ~ As of today, I am FREE of my crutches and tight compression "stockings".  I'm celebrating by trying to get my house picked up :-).

I've already shared some of the details surrounding the first two days of "recovery", but I'm going to try to more fully "summarize" how things have gone.  (BTW ~ This is going to be long.)

Surgery Day, Thursday, June 2nd - We got up early on Thursday morning to be at the Surgery Center by 6:15 a.m.  I checked in and then waited for a while until they took me back to get changed and ready.  I had never had an IV put in before, and I would be content if I never have to have one again.  Not very pleasant.  Anyways......

Several people came in to "introduce" themselves to me - the anesthesiologist, the "lead" doctor, his associate, and a couple of nurses.  The doctor made sure to draw a smiley face on the correct hip (reassuring, for sure!!!).  Then they introduced me to these wonderful things called "compression stockings" (sarcasm intended).  We quickly slowly pulled one onto my right leg :-(.

Once they had me all ready I said my good-bye to Nathan and then walked down the hall to my surgery room.  I climbed up onto the table (this felt sort of weird to me) and they started hooking me up to all sorts of things.  They put a mask on my face as they told me they were going to start giving me a little oxygen and I had the thought of "I'm getting a little dizzy.  Should I close my eyes before I fall asleep?" and then I remember no more.

My next awareness was opening my eyes to see a wall in front of me.  My nose itched so I reached up to rub it and the nurse said something to me.  I think it might have been "Hi" but I'm not really sure :-).  She told me I had an oxygen tube in my nose and I needed to leave it alone.  She then asked about my pain level, which was about a 7 or 8 at that point.  She gave me some more pain medicine and I continued laying there (I really don't know how long).  After a while, she told me that I was doing great and she was going to take me to the other "recovery" room where I could sit up and get something to eat.

Here is what I have pieced together of what was done during my surgery.  The doctor made two small incisions (each about the size of a button hole) in the front side of my left hip.  He inserted a camera into one hole and his tools into the other hole (I have pictures if anyone is weird enough to want to see them).  The tear in my labrum was about 1 centimeter to 1 1/2 centimeters long.  The doctor shaved part of my hip bone down in order to put an anchor into the bone.  He put two anchors down and then "tied" the labral tear down with two nylon-like strings.  He tied a knot in the strings, and that was that.  The strings and anchor don't go anywhere.  I now have weird "stuff" hanging out inside of me :-).  The tear should eventually heal over to just scar tissue.

Back to recovery.  When I was trying to get off the bed and into a recliner chair (which hurt like CRAZY and was not easy to do - took 3 nurses working together to help me move) I realized that I already had the large and awkward brace around my middle and down my leg.  I had the brief thought of "I don't even want to know HOW they got that on me while I was unconscious."

I was finally settled into the chair and the nurse gave me more pain medicine.  I don't think I have ever hurt that bad in my entire life!!!!!  They brought me a cup of ice and water along with a plate of saltine crackers.  They wanted to get me eating so I could start taking the oral pain medicine.  The nurse said she would go get Nathan for me.  Over the next few minutes (again I really don't know how long - time didn't seem to make any sense to me) several people came by and said something to the effect of "Where is your husband?  Is someone getting him?"  Finally Nathan came :-).

I "snacked", people came by, they talked, I "think" I listened, they gave me oral pain pills, I swallowed them, I "dozed", they told me I could get dressed and go home.  That's all kind of a blur.  We won't talk about the process of getting dressed.

We got out to the parking lot and headed to the car.  But when we got to the car, I started feeling VERY nauseous and promptly leaned over the wheelchair and puked.  It was just water (I hadn't eaten anything since the night before) but it was still nasty.  (I don't get sick to my stomach.  In the last 15 years or so, I have only puked ONCE!!!!)  The nurse wheeled me back to the building and went inside to get me a cloth to clean up.  I very painfully got into the car and we headed home.

We live in a 3-story townhome.  Getting up the stairs that day was a HORRIBLE process.  I sat on the stairs and we tried to inch me up the stairs slowly.  I couldn't lift my leg at all, so I would lift myself up and Nathan would slowly lift my left leg up to the next step.  It was VERY painful and slow going, but we finally made it to the top and got me to the couch.

This is plenty long for today.  I'll continue the story later :-).

Saturday, June 11, 2011

"Just Love Coffee" June Promotion

Pam ~ Another month and another chance to win some FREE coffee!!!!  And your odds are even better than before!!!!!

This month, Just Love Coffee is going to give away EIGHT bags of coffee AND an Aeropress Coffee and Espresso Maker to everyone who profits $75 or more in the month of June.  The eight bags of coffee will be a surprise this time :-).  I just LOVE surprises, don't you?????

For every bag of coffee you purchase in the next three weeks (if we meet the goal of $75) you will get 1 entry into our drawing for FREE coffee, and we will have 1 GRAND PRIZE winner who will receive the Aeropress Coffee and Espresso Maker :-).

Please share our "Just Love Coffee" store link (www.justlovecoffee.com/Maxwells) on your blog, Facebook, Twitter, or wherever else you can think of :-).  And check it out for yourself :-).  We have received GREAT feedback from those who have already purchased from our store.

Happy 7th Anniversary

Pam ~ Seven years ago today I married the love of my life.  God has taken us through many different joys and trials, and He has brought us through each and every one of them.  What will this next year bring?  God knows and He is preparing us even now to learn and grow through each day we are together!!!!  I love you, Nathan Maxwell!!!!!

June 11, 2004 ~ Our Wedding Day

Our first kiss :-)

Friday, June 10, 2011

"Just Love Coffee" WINNERS!!!

And the winners are...........................

#1 ~ Michelle Hunerdosse
#2 ~ Daniel Goodrich
#3 ~ Tim Carter
#4 ~ David Maxwell

Thanks to David, Daniel, Joy, Michelle, and Tim for ordering yummy coffee from our "Just Love Coffee" store this past month!!!!  We brought in $85 in profit during the month of May!!!

We will be contacting you SOON to get your coffee request :-).

Friday, June 3, 2011

Surgery update

Pam ~     I'm writing this by hand downstairs and sending it with Nathan to type into the blog upstairs (have to admit that a laptop would be nice over these next few days.)

I"m feeling much better today. Yesterday was HORRIBLE!!! I should have guessed when all the nurses were telling me how much pain I was going to be in and how much they dread seeing hip surgery on hte list for the day. At lease I was "somewhat" prepared???

Besides the pain of getting up the stairs, the nausea was by far the worse!! I needed to eat in order to take my medicine, but if i are it all just came right back up. My poor husband [Nate - not really] put up with a lot yesterday. He's the BEST. I love him!!! [Nate - that felt weird to type out...)

Nathan finally called the doctor and got me a prescription for some anti-nausea medicine. Once I took that, the nausea wasn't gone, but I was done throwing up. I took 2 hour long maps yesterday and was finally feeling pretty good last night. We went to bed at midnith with me sleeping on the couch and Nathan on the floor next ot me. He gave me clear instructions to wake him during the night if I needed anything. While his intentions were good, his fatigue was greater. I woke and needed to visit the restroom but couldn't reach my crutches. Long story short, after several minutes Nathan finally handed the crutches to me and I made it to and from the bathroom on my own. (He doesn't remember ANY of this) [Nate - I really don't. Apparently, in my sleep, I was a punk and almost didn't give them to her and didn't understand why she needed them...don't remember a thing.]

Exciting news!!! My LARGE and awkward brace is purple!!! (Along with a lot of white, plastic, black, and metal bars - I guess you could say it's accented with purple). LOL.

Nate - just an interjection here. First, thank you all for praying. We really appreciate it. Second, Pam has one incredible pain tolerance level. She took two of the pain meds three times yesterday...and she has taken 1 today. I obviously don't know what pain she is in but she is still holding up REALLY well!

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Home from surgery

Nate ~     I'm not sure how this will go as Pam is hurting, feeling sick, and I don't want to be up here too long, but she wanted me to update everyone. The surgery was only 1.25 hours, shorter than expected. The surgeon didn't find the tear on the side he was expecting, but it was right behind the hip flexor. A tendon there was so tight it may have been the cause of the tear. He loosened (cut) that tendon some but as it only provides about 5% of the strength for the hip flexor, she shouldn't even notice as she is recovering. However, to be recovering, we need to get through the next couple of days....

So far: lots of pain for Pam. I haven't seen that much pain on her face as long as we've been married...oh, and stairs and hip surgery - not made for each other!! We did, however, finally get up the stairs. We have found that if I move her leg for her and she just focuses on her good leg and the crutches then we can get up and back as is necessary, it just hurts and takes a while...no emergencies allowed right now.

The nurse seemed to think she'd be in a lot of pain for the next 24-48 hours and then it should lesson and be more manageable with fewer pain killers. Until then, I will be giving her pain medicine every 4 hours. Would you pray for her though. Right now she can't keep anything down (including water and saltines). The nausea started in the parking lot at the hospital and then she made it home, but she needs to be able to keep something down before she can get more pain medication and she should have had some 15 minutes ago....

Thank you all for your love and prayers. I'm sure that Pam will appreciate it when she is less drugged and able to think straight! :o)